Pendekatan Forgiveness Therapy dan Attachment Theory dalam Menangani Masalah Perselingkuhan Pasangan Kristen

Joyis Sagala, May Rauli Simamora

Abstract


The purpose of this study is to determine the effectiveness of Forgiveness Therapy and Attachment Theory which is applied to Christian families who experience infidelity and to improve the relationship between husband and wife to avoid family damage (divorce). Literature review according to the relevant material is used as a data collection method in this study. This study found that attachment theory and forgiveness therapy can be an appropriate inner healing approach for Christian husbands and wives. Forgiveness therapy and incorporating attachment theory can be used for the recovery of Christian married couples with infidelity problems.

Abstrak

Tujuan dari penelitian ini adalah untuk mengetahui keefektifan forgiveness therapy and attachment theory yang diterapkan kepada keluarga kristen yang mengalami perseling-kuhan, serta memperbaiki hubungan antara suami dan istri agar terhindar dari kerusakan keluarga (perceraian). Tinjauan literatur sesuai materi yang relevan digunakan sebagai metode pengumpulan data dalam penelitian ini. Penelitian ini menemukan bahwa Attachment Theory dan Forgiveness therapy dapat menjadi pendekatan inner healing atau pemulihan yang tepat bagi suami-istri kristen. Terapi pemaafan (pengampunan) serta mengikut sertakan teori keterikatan (attachment theory) dapat digunakan untuk pemulihan kembali pasangan suami-istri kristen dengan masalah perselingkuhan.


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